Memorial Day Weekend Traditions

 As you know, Memorial Day is coming up this weekend. I have thought long and hard about how I can make this holiday more meaningful and memorable for my children. And, to be honest, for me. 

I am a World War II fanatic. I have always found that time and generation to be so inspiring and amazing. My grandfather fought in that war, and I have recently learned a few more insights into what he did. But he didn't die in the war, and so I want to somehow honor and remember those who did. That's what Memorial Day is all about. 

In the past, I have taken my girls to military cemeteries to visit graves. We talk about war, and the horrible consequences of it (because military cemeteries are always full of graves). And since we live in the south (Tennessee), we also have many gravesites of fallen Civil War soldiers. I think I like this tradition, but I feel like I could do more. 

Due to being a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, I know that doing redemptive work for our dead is very important and valuable. I have been thinking about traditions that can both honor the dead, and help to redeem them. 

Lately, I have been thinking about how memories of those that have died in wars, and have gone on before me in earlier generations, need to be honored and remembered. I think I will start a tradition where I can talk with my children about our ancestors, and seek out ways to collect memories about them, and get their names ready for temple ordinances. 

But if there are other traditions that are appropriate for Memorial Day other than just grilling burgers, I would love to hear them. 

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